What’s your Perspective?

I’ve been following Andy Andrews lately and listening to his podcast called In The Loop. Truly great stuff…and I have found a few more books I have to add to my reading list. This morning I stumbled across an excerpt from one of those books called The Noticer. It said:

I recounted a real memory of a meal I shared with Jones, (the book’s central character). He had invited me to join him on a sand dune near the ocean for what he called a “feast.” This “feast” turned out to be Vienna sausages and sardines. As we began the meal, he asked me what I was eating.


Puzzled, and a little annoyed by what the “feast” had turned out to be, I said, “I’m eating sardines and Vienna sausages.” “Where?” he responded.
Still annoyed, I answered, “In the sand.”


He responded with something extraordinary that still affects me to this day:
“Young man, you see only the sand at your feet and what you are eating that you wish was something else. I don’t tell you this as a rebuke; you are very ordinary in your views. Most people are just like you, disgusted with themselves for what they are and what they eat and what they drive. Most of us never stop to think that there are quite literally millions in this world who lack our blessings and opportunities, have no food to eat at all, and no hope of ever owning a car.”


Then, he really hit me with something: “Incidentally, you ate sardines and Vienna sausages in the sand. I dined on surf and turf with an ocean view. It’s all about perspective.”

What’s your perspective? How do you look at your life, your circumstances, your friends, your family, your surroundings? So many times I have to admit that I feel the “woe is me” attitude creep in and I need to keep it in check. We are all very fortunate regardless of what it appears is on our plate.

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  • Tom Slavonik

    Very appropriate story for life as we know it in these United Ststes today! In many cases we need only look over our shoulder to find someone toting a way heavier suitcase. Life is full of problems and challenges; it’s how we deal with them that sets us apart from “the crowd.” Count your Blessings and always be Thankful for what you have! Share and care – the world needs more of that! As the saying goes: “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

    • http://www.grandyassociates.com Bill Kinnard

      Tom,

      Thank you for your comments. Like you said, what makes a difference is how we deal with problems and challenges that sets us apart from the crowd. When I get cut off by another car in traffic or some other similar situation, I always remind myself that maybe the other person is dealing with a very stressful situation at the moment. Maybe they just got a call about a loved one and are rushing to the hospital to be with them. There could be many different scenarios. We need to be thankful for what we have, count our blessings…..and care. Thanks for your perspective Tom.